I have only one true friend who is a boy and he moved away years ago and I miss him very very much!!! He is the only boy who never tried to hit on me and who was there for me no matter what. These friendships are very rare. I actually have many friends who are boys, ahmm let me rephrase, buddies (not fb's, that is a totally different story =]). I am "qualifying" them as buddies for a very good reason. There are two types of guys in this particular situation: the guy who you were dating and maybe even more, but it didn't work out, so you willingly or unwillingly become friends, i.e. buddies, and there is the guy who pretends to be your friend, you go out, have fun, no strings attached, until the day he asks you if you have a boyfriend and then it suddenly becomes clear that he is one of them, he is only choosing the longer way to get in your pants. Well tough luck!
I studied boys and men for many many years, I had to go through many deceptions to get hold of all these precious pieces of information which I am using against them [muahahahahahaha]. Yes, sometimes I feel that they are the enemy, but still I cannot live without them.
So in the end it all comes down to relationships and those nasty boys, huh?! >_<
fking awesome post!!! massive big up :D
ReplyDeletereally love it! The two types of guys that you described... true :D
thank u ^_^ *blush*
ReplyDeleteezt en is irhattam volna :))
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I had a very-best-guy-friend once. I/He/We ruined it with a very complicated relationship. Though the "we're only friends" attitude does get us girls somewhere.. if we like a boy that is.
ReplyDeleteMost of the time I thought that boys r complicated creatures but now I think that they are just plain dumb or too blind to see what's going on O_o
ReplyDeleteand sorry about ur friend, it happened to me too, hooking up with a friend is the quickest way to ruin a friendship >_<